If you have the nerve to test an ex to ask her if she still has feelings for you is very disrespectful towards the person you are in a relationship with now. Stop feeling guilty for her, you didn’t do anything wrong. Like they say, things happen for a reason. You can’t be the blame for how someone’s life turns out. It shows maturity …  overtime. But if she was to blame you for mistakes she has made in life, or that sad excuse every female gives a man when they try to move on. “Oh my ex this & that.” That just shows she hasn’t matured yet, Like grow up and get over it. You make your own decisions in life. She’s spoiled, she has EVERYTHING handed to her, and I refuse to even let you be in a friendship with someone so manipulative . You don’t see it , but I do. I’m a female, I know all the tricks. I trust you but not her. She doesn’t deserve your time. A “Hi” and “Bye” is fine, but a whole paragraph of shit at 2 in the morning is very suspicious and a tad bit sneaky. That’s booty call hours . I know you’d feel some type of way if I wanted to be friends with my ex so badly. I don’t give a fuck about any of them niggas, they can kiss my ass. I don’t see whats so special about being her friend, there’s more good, cool people in the world than just her. So you not missing out on anything .